One request and one OT
Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2004 8:59 am
I have lost track of how I am suppoused to do this so I am simply posting my issue on the board and wait for the response.
I have found it quite hard to recruite new players to the game. I have managed to get a few people intrested but obviously not enough to join and I think one part of the problem is that I have directed them towards the different clans and their clan heads and I guess the newbies have found our system either complicated or simply not appealing.
I have then thought of a different way of doing things. If I put together a new clan with the newibies and function as some sort of "parent" for them then it would be more of an "open door" for them. I cant remember the rules about clan heads but my idea was then when one of the newbies has took a liking to the game and has played one or two groups then I leave them to their destiny.
I have no time to play games of my own at the moment since I sometimes get online every day and sometimes are away for 1,5 weeks but I do belive that I can reply to questions and give pointers to newcomers.
This all depends on the fact that the general community trust that I dont try to benefit from it and that I can separate my clan affiliation with my assignment as "teacher".
Give me your thoughts on this.
The rest is OT so if you arent intrested then stop reading here.
I post this simply to give you all some perspective of life in general. Maybe you re-evaluate some things you now consider as major personal problems and after reading it you might think that your life isnt all that bad after all.
I have over the last 7 years sponsored a child in Romania. She was 2 when I started and naturally she hasnt been able to respond to any mails until the last few years and then it is by local voulonteers who has translated them back and fourth. At one time I actually got a photo of her. The orphans in Romania isnt really considered a priority by the local authorities so they get poor food and shelters if any at all and the result is that they tend to get sick.
When I started with the sponsorship she didnt even have a name, imagine that! They women at the orphanage then named her Daniela since it is a common name in Romania and my first name is Daniel.
Anyway, she now has some major internal malfunctions in most of her organs and it is probably related to her mother. 99% of the orphans comes from parents with heavy drug problems which tends to mess up their body or brain.
Daniela is now at a hospital in Bucharest and the sponsor organisation will pay for her hospital fees for another 6 days and then she is on her own.
To stay alive she needs to transplant 7 vital body functions including heart and liver. First of all it isnt even possible to do in Romania. Second of all it would cost above 500.000 USD with the surgery alone, not counting the aftermath that would come.
So, you have guessed it. On saturday at 10 pm they will pull the plug. Actually she will recieve a shot of something so she falls into sleep before her body gives up since it would be really painful for her if she was awake when it hit. Anyway, I dont really know her since I have never met her but as I understand it I am one of the few in her life that has actually cared for her so I'll be dam**d if I will let her die alone in some hospital with only nurses and doctors. She has been living a nightmare from the day she was born and she should at least have it easy leaving this cursed world.
Tomorrow I will be on a plane to Bucharest with a mission to make her last few days worth it all. I have a hard time even writing this so I have no clue about how I should be able to put on a smile when I get there but as they say, when the going gets tough.... I guess I'll soon find out if I am one of those who then gets going or if I crack under the pressure. I will at least give it a shot or it will haunt me the rest of my life.
No need to wish me luck. Luck has turned its back on her life a long time ago. Why should it show up now?
One week ago I was worried about if one of my warmwater pipes was leaking and thought a lot about it. I'm not anymore.
I have found it quite hard to recruite new players to the game. I have managed to get a few people intrested but obviously not enough to join and I think one part of the problem is that I have directed them towards the different clans and their clan heads and I guess the newbies have found our system either complicated or simply not appealing.
I have then thought of a different way of doing things. If I put together a new clan with the newibies and function as some sort of "parent" for them then it would be more of an "open door" for them. I cant remember the rules about clan heads but my idea was then when one of the newbies has took a liking to the game and has played one or two groups then I leave them to their destiny.
I have no time to play games of my own at the moment since I sometimes get online every day and sometimes are away for 1,5 weeks but I do belive that I can reply to questions and give pointers to newcomers.
This all depends on the fact that the general community trust that I dont try to benefit from it and that I can separate my clan affiliation with my assignment as "teacher".
Give me your thoughts on this.
The rest is OT so if you arent intrested then stop reading here.
I post this simply to give you all some perspective of life in general. Maybe you re-evaluate some things you now consider as major personal problems and after reading it you might think that your life isnt all that bad after all.
I have over the last 7 years sponsored a child in Romania. She was 2 when I started and naturally she hasnt been able to respond to any mails until the last few years and then it is by local voulonteers who has translated them back and fourth. At one time I actually got a photo of her. The orphans in Romania isnt really considered a priority by the local authorities so they get poor food and shelters if any at all and the result is that they tend to get sick.
When I started with the sponsorship she didnt even have a name, imagine that! They women at the orphanage then named her Daniela since it is a common name in Romania and my first name is Daniel.
Anyway, she now has some major internal malfunctions in most of her organs and it is probably related to her mother. 99% of the orphans comes from parents with heavy drug problems which tends to mess up their body or brain.
Daniela is now at a hospital in Bucharest and the sponsor organisation will pay for her hospital fees for another 6 days and then she is on her own.
To stay alive she needs to transplant 7 vital body functions including heart and liver. First of all it isnt even possible to do in Romania. Second of all it would cost above 500.000 USD with the surgery alone, not counting the aftermath that would come.
So, you have guessed it. On saturday at 10 pm they will pull the plug. Actually she will recieve a shot of something so she falls into sleep before her body gives up since it would be really painful for her if she was awake when it hit. Anyway, I dont really know her since I have never met her but as I understand it I am one of the few in her life that has actually cared for her so I'll be dam**d if I will let her die alone in some hospital with only nurses and doctors. She has been living a nightmare from the day she was born and she should at least have it easy leaving this cursed world.
Tomorrow I will be on a plane to Bucharest with a mission to make her last few days worth it all. I have a hard time even writing this so I have no clue about how I should be able to put on a smile when I get there but as they say, when the going gets tough.... I guess I'll soon find out if I am one of those who then gets going or if I crack under the pressure. I will at least give it a shot or it will haunt me the rest of my life.
No need to wish me luck. Luck has turned its back on her life a long time ago. Why should it show up now?
One week ago I was worried about if one of my warmwater pipes was leaking and thought a lot about it. I'm not anymore.